Polygyny, or plural marriage, is the solution for happy, healthy Families - and so much more!

Polygyny is the second oldest form of marriage recorded in history. The first recorded instance of polygyny was a man insisting he will protect himself and his family.  God even talks about it in the Bible on numerous occasions, blessing women in plural marriages and blessing the men who led them.

Formal polygyny, where the family are all married legally, has been illegal in the USA since 1890, so there’s not much information out there on how to set up and manage a poly family.  I’ve been involved with Christian Polygyny for over 30 years, and decided to share my advice and experiences with anyone interested.  You can see the good and the bad, the positive and negative, and make your own decision.

Polygyny is not monogamy but with two women, it’s a completely different lifestyle focused on self development, leadership for both men and women, and becoming the wisest and strongest persons you can be.  It’s about Family First and being responsible.

The women of plural marriage can be career, family focused, or both.  That’s the beauty of this form of marriage.  Ladies, you may wrap yourself up in family, yet still have your independence and career.  The women I have met over the years have almost all been exceptionally self assured, strong, and independent.  Women that anyone would be proud to know.

The men of polygyny are leaders.  They forge the pathways for their families. They are warriors, thinkers, winners.  They lead with honor, commitment, and wisdom.  These men suffer the drawbacks of this form of life willingly and happily.

Family First means that your family is first, the most important, your history, your future, and your pride.

To a man, Polygyny is about leadership.

It’s about personal leadership, honor, and raising a strong family with the least government intrusion possible.  Polygyny is far more difficult than monogamy for the men, and requires a deeper commitment overall.  Men in poly must be active leaders, learn constantly, become wiser, stronger, and able to deal with day to day issues. To a man, polygyny is about family, and children, and swing sets, and gardening, and a wholesome lifestyle that creates strong families and even stronger children.  The sacrifice is worth it.

To a woman, polygyny is Comfort.

The independent woman wants to expand out, grow, and stretch her legs on an adventure.  She wants the career yet still have a home to come to at the end of the day.  She wants to have a child, and see it grow under the roof of her family, not see the baby twice a day for ten minutes when she drops it off at daycare. She wants the child to have her values, not those of strangers.  The poly woman wants to become her dream, and polygyny marriage is the way to have a career and a marriage at the same time.

To a child, polygyny means safety and love

Polygyny is the single safest lifestyle for children.

Abuse is almost unheard of.  In it’s place is education, happy memories and screams of joy.

The kids of polygyny are well adjusted because they can play, explore, and grow in a comfortable and stable environment around people that love them dearly.  Children are raised at home, taught at home, and protected, at home.  Knowing that if you are called away your sister is watching the children while you’re at work, caring for your child as if he or she were her own, is more valuable than gold. Dropping your child off with strangers, and praying they are alive and healthy when you come back, is a thing of the past.

Polygyny may be about leadership to men, and personal growth to women, but to a child, polygyny means life.

Polygyny Answers!

This is a multi-site center for plural marriage.  Take a look around, explore and learn what the site has to offer you and your family.  Everything is discussed, but relations issues to how to be an effective leader.  Men are honored here, as they should be.  Women are protected and allowed to grow, as they should be.  Children are allowed to be kids, as they should be.  Take a look around.  Learn.  Grow.  Excel!