If you think this is polygamy, you would be right... and wrong.

Polygamy is misunderstood by many.  It has many opponents, it has been shoved into the background for centuries. Moden examples are more media than fact, more drama than love or comfort.  Perople don’t pay to see fields of flowers or people struggling to be better… they people want to see conflict, wrestling, and fighting.

This must change if we are to survive as a species.  The poly Solution is not about making poly families, but about using the knowledge of plural marriage to help you repair your existing marriage, and build stronger foundations. 

Polygamy is not monogamy.  While both have to do with marriage, being in a monogamous marriage is like being the captain of a small sailboat… while polygamy is more like being the captain of a large ocean going ship.  In monogamy you can be easy going and relaxed, let things go, and not deal with problems… but in poly, you deal with them or you don’t have a family.  How to deal with them is the purpose of this website.  But it’s more.  It’s how to husband a family, how to build strong foundations, and how to set goals and paths.  For too long these skills have been ignored.  That time is over.

The Eight Principles of Polygamy

Equality

Men and woman are always equal.

Gender Roles are Traditional, not mandatory.

Marriage is blending the labor of two people into one functional whole.
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Choice

Marriage is your choice, and only yours.

Freedom of choice is always available, always.

Without the freedom to choose, there is no marriage, only ownership or slavery.
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Agreement

Strong agreements make strong marriages.

The agreement you make is the marriage.

Negotiate your marriage well, and you will find yourself in a lifetime of love.
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Children or not

Polygamy is the best lifestyle for kids.

Women who don't want children still can have kids.

Polygamy is about freedom of choice. The freedom to choose to have a child, or not.
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Growth

Self growth is what makes polygamy wonderful.

Self exploration and personal growth

Having a family supporting you during a lifetime of growth is a huge benefit of polygamy.
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Career

In poly, your career doesn't take a backseat.

Poly is truly the most free form of marriage there is.

You get to have a family, and not feel guilty when pulling 24 hours, or a long day at work.
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Disaster

Surviving a disaster with more than two is much easier.

When life slaps you down, and you seek support.

That support is right there in the house with you in the form of best friends, hugs, and love.
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Death

A death doesn't always mean separation and uncertainty.

Death in monogamy is always disasterous

But in poly, it's still bad but the family isn't ripped apart and the kids are safer.
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